I was really lucky to be interviewed by Caroline and Ally of Oh So Graceful, which is probably the cutest and most intentional lifestyle blog & shop out there. They have really beautiful and unique ideas like how to make a holiday wreath with vintage ornaments. We had a lovely interview and gorgeous photoshoot.
Read MoreI told everyone I was fine. And I would point to all the shit I was doing - teaching myself photography and photoshop. I was blogging a ton and getting featured on other sites (albeit unpaid) etc. But everyone wanted to know what was the plan. How I was going to make money? It was and is a valid question. I didn’t have an answer and I felt completely useless. Read more to learn why I chose a spade to get tattooed on my forearm.
Read MoreI’ve always admired my dad’s successful career. Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about what makes me different than my dad. How did our paths turn out so differently? I’ve had plenty of opportunities that should have allowed me to climb a ladder. Why didn’t they work for me? Why did they always feel wrong? Am I flawed? Or do I just have something to say?
Read MoreI am so unbelievably lucky. I will never have to write a letter to a senator telling them that the nominee they are about to consider had molested in me my sleep. I will never have to testify during a Supreme Court nomination hearing and retell my story of being sexually assaulted by my babysitter. Yes, I am lucky.
Read MoreI moved to Cleveland, exactly four years ago, on October 3rd 2014. I moved here for a job. I was kind of sick of Chicago. I was looking to move but never thought it would be to a smaller city, still in the midwest. And I love it. But whenever I am asked how I like living here, I always respond, “I love it. But I won’t die here.”
Read MoreThe combination of fresh notebooks for school, leaves changing colors, and the crisp fall air always makes me want to take a step back and start anew. Over the years, I’ve learned that there are a few essential things to do at the end of the summer or early autumn that help set you up for success for the rest of the year.
Read MoreWhere I’ve been. What I’ve been doing. With whom. And why. Catching you up on my life this summer and fill you in on why I have been posting so irregular now.
Read MoreWhat no one tells you about being a survivor of sexual assault and sharing your story, you are constantly catching your breath while running as fast as you can. When you are public about this experience, you will get an onslaught of emotions from others - friends, family, strangers. This is the story of how I dealt with some of the added pressure.
Read MoreI have moved around a lot in my life and I’ve always said I don’t have a hometown. Throughout my life, I have moved around a lot. Throughout my whole life. I think it’s something like 25 apartments/houses, spread throughout 10 cities, five states, and two countries. It’s been exciting but I want community. And I found that in Cleveland. But now I might move.
Read MoreHere are some of my favorite quotes. Most are from books. A few of them are tattooed on me, which has inspired me to do another post soon on all my tattoos and what they mean. Too many are from Love Warrior. But they all make my heart hurt reading them.
Read MoreObviously, I love weddings. I love an open bar, and a dance floor, and getting dressed up and feeling fancy. But one thing I hate: finding a date. I’m not good at it. And that might be largely due to the fact that most men in my life are keeping me warm, in case they feel like hanging out, once a moon cycle. In this essay, I describe my complicated relationship with weddings, dating, and my own independence.
Read MoreTrigger warning: This post contains graphic content of sexual assault and sexual abuse against a child. For a long time, I’ve thought about sharing my story of sexual assault in writing. Well today, I’m doing it. I am nervous (as fuck does not begin to cover it). But I am mostly proud and feel in control of my story for the first time in my life.
I follow a ton of lifestyle bloggers. They are perfect. In every possible way. They have great bodies, beautiful families, dope vacations. Maybe its perfect in a purely aesthetic way. I don’t care. I love them.
Read MoreSelf-help, spiritual, advice - whatever you want to call them, I love these books and they have changed my life. Here are my top ten.
Read MoreMost of my writing is very honest and vulnerable but a lot of it revolves around me forgiving others. Sometimes for what people have taught me to believe about myself. But sometimes we need to acknowledge how we have hurt others and forgive ourselves.
Read MoreMy whole life people have called me a bitch (in some way or other), which really impacted how I thought of my self. Spoiler alert: I developed terrible self worth. But I’m finally getting over that and realizing that those comments were about the people saying it - not me.
Read MoreI watched a lot of Olsen Twins movies growing up. Boy, was I dissapointed when I found out my life wasn’t like their lives in the movies. Until I got a vaca boyfriend.
Read MoreWe are hard wired for connection. Brene Brown has told me this a dozen times. My therapist has said it 100 times. But why? What the fuck does that even mean? Well recently, I’ve learned that connecting with others helps my anxiety.
Read MoreI wrote this letter to a friend and I think you may enjoy it too.
Read MoreI really want to be a #bossbabe. But I’m not and I probably will never be. I like rose wine all year and too much. But here is why I think it’s okay.
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